.Friday, April 11, 2008 ' 5:35 PM Y
Caught Definitely, Maybe with Nana last nite. Thou it was a long movie, it does triggers a lot of thoughts and comments. Simple story line but makes people think deep.
1) You may think you married the one you love most but to find at after marriage, its otherwise.
2) The person whom you thought you loved most may not necessary completes you.
3) Whatever that its written here represents my thoughts only. It does not apply to all.
Recaps on few of the scenes:-
William (The leading male actor) had to fly to New York for 2 months on a new job. Leaving his girlfriend (Emily, who became his wife eventually) behind. Worried that he will change and fall for another girl when he is in New York, William assured Emily that he will not change. Throughout his stay there, there were temptations and he almost fell for it, he controlled and waited for Emily to go over to New York where he will propose to her but to find out that she has strayed back home. (you have to watch it to know how they got married at last. Life its just a big circle, but still ended up in divorce. Headache ah!)
Breach of trust here. William thought he could trust Emily but in the end, Emily broke his heart. Of cuz, overtime, (time heals) when Emily and William got to see each other at a party, things started to bloom again BUT ended up in divorce. Humans are soooo complicated arent we?
Trust. How do you know when you can completely trust someone? By feeling? By fact? Or simply just trust for sake of trusting? Trusting comes from within if not forget it. Yes I admit I do selective trusting. Not all people are worth trusting. Yes, I do not trust easily too and if I do, better not breach it, I will turn mean. *evil grinz*.
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One of the few touching scenes were the part where William after losing his well-paid job took up a lowly paid job at a library in order to get links to find a lost book for April (one of the ladies who turned out to be William’s true love).
I truly believe from doing things from the heart. Only when you truly want to do something for someone special for you, your heart will automatically want to do things for the person. Even if the process of getting it done is tough, it is all worth it. But if one is feeling stress about this, then probably will think twice.
I remember there was this joke that went around the office previously. We were talking about the wife of a big boss. She gave birth to another boy and the boss is given her a Rolex as a “reward”. Then he was like telling the guys of our company. Women, must start with a “Casio” then “Swatch” then slowly increase the value. Cannot give them the best in the beginning cuz they will start to compare and if the value is lower than previous then the women would feel “unimportant”. THIS IS ONLY AN EXAMPLE!
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Maya. William’s daughter whom helped him find his happiness back.
I guess im not so magnanimous in this case. However, I try to keep a neutral stand on parent’s affairs.
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People always say that things will always change before and after marriage. Indeed the show does replicate true life incidents. Y would the perfect marriage end up in divorce? IN the show, they of cuz did not go into the details y but we can only imagine. But then again, I do see married couples still being lovey dovey despite having kids at home. Kudos to J’s hubby, still doting her as if they just got together. Hahaha. Got a SGDX,XXX.00 diamond necklace for pressie and HOLIDAY! Gosh i want a holiday too.
To J : Remember to bring back pressies from your USA trip hor, dun forget us *wink*
So conclusion, its pretty subjective in each case. I would feel that yeah, things will be different, there will be ups and downs but eventually there will be more happy times together. As for me, I can only wait and see and pray hard.
