.Friday, September 14, 2007 ' 4:41 PM Y
Being able to do something, which you are reluctant initially, isnt actually that bad.
If you are wondering what I am talking about, it is the mooncake issue. I managed to overcome my stubbornness and sliced up the mooncake and started “serving” everyone in the company. A few days back, it will be something which I will NOT do, especially serving to her. Then after serious considerations, it was not easy for me to put down my ego and do what I had to do. Still, I threw my ego away and stoop humble.
After that, I felt good actually. The initial feeling of hatred and anger was no longer there, I felt peace and a little happiness on the other hand. The meaning of being able to forgive someone and make peace is actually very simple. However, the process before you decides on making peace, that is the tricky part. I could have chose to not serve and let that ugly feeling boil in me, or let it go and be merry. I chose the latter. What is the point of being bearing that grudge in someone when it will only make u grow older faster. I am already ageing rapidly I would not want to speed up that process.
No matter how much you hate a person, y not take a different stand and try to make peace? Wouldn’t life be better? The feeling of hating someone is so unbearable. Makes you vexed, temperamental and in turn it’s the people beside you that gets the aftermath of your own problems. It is the love ones that we end up hurting. Not worth a single bit.
Labels: Mooncakes
